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Common Early Astral Projection Experiences

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Dear Soul Arcanum:

We’ve corresponded in the past about my spontaneous experiences of astral projection. Recently I had another experience. I remembered you told me not to be afraid, and I wasn’t this time. I rose out of my body and was floating towards my front door. My face was next to the ceiling, and the ceiling seemed soft and flexible. I was floating back down to my body when I saw an orange-gold ball of light zooming all over the room. It had a tail like a comet. As it zoomed through the room, it would cross over its own tail. I wasn’t scared, and I gently floated back into my body. I tried yelling my husband’s name so he could see it, but I was paralyzed and couldn’t speak. I finally managed to shout his name and he woke up but he didn’t see the light. In all the experiences I’ve had, I’ve never seen this before. Can you tell me what the light was? Also, I can’t seem to get out of my house while I’m out of the body. Any advice you can offer would be appreciated!
– Vicki

Dear Vicki:

From our prior correspondence, I know that you’re new to astral projection. Since many of our readers are interested in learning how to have out of body experiences, this is a great opportunity to explore these common scenarios.

Many people have seen things like your racing orange ball of light. This could have been any one of a number of entities from another (metaphysical) dimension. Many times spirits will show up in this way. If you research ghost photography and orbs, you’ll see not only orange orbs that seem stationary but also shooting or racing orbs.

Some people have reported encountering other (living) astral travelers as orange balls of light. In fact, a popular technique for trying to get out of the body is to focus your consciousness into a ball of light and then shoot the ball of light out into the astral, so it’s possible that you saw someone else who was astral projecting.

This fellow projector could have been attracted by the fact that you were out of your body too, or they could have been totally unaware of you. We leave our bodies every night, but most of us don’t do it consciously. When encountered during our regular nightly travels, many of us will seem like we’re sleepwalking, and could pass right by a conscious astral projector as if we’re in a dream.

Some people believe that non-human entities like elves, fairies and nature spirits can appear as balls of light. Others insist they’ve seen angels, spirit guides, and earthbound spirits or ghosts take similar forms.

There also seems to be a connection between bright racing lights and the formation of crop circles. Many people have seen lights like this above fields just before crop circles were discovered. There is even a controversial video that supposedly captures orange balls of light as they create a crop circle. Google “Oliver’s Castle video” to judge for yourself.

This whole subject makes me wonder how we may appear to beings in other dimensions when we alter our state of consciousness and raise our vibration through meditation, shamanic journeying and other spiritual practices. Perhaps as our consciousness follows a guided meditation, in the realm we’re mentally traveling through, we are perceived as some sort of supernatural phenomenon. I know that spirits are drawn to “the light” of mediums in the physical, so maybe we appear as balls of light to beings in other dimensions.

You see, everything we can imagine is real on some level or in some dimension of experience. We can perceive light but we can’t hold it in our hands or capture it in a test tube. There is some light we can’t physically perceive such as infrared or ultraviolet light, but we know this light exists and can affect us.

When spirits or entities become dense and dip into the etheric plane, we may perceive them with our eyes or cameras as lights, orbs, mists, apparitions, etc. Similarly, when our consciousness shifts into the etheric or astral plane during astral projection, we can perceive things there that we can’t when our consciousness is rooted in the physical.

So you shouldn’t assume that everything you see in the astral is there to interact with you for some reason. Seeing this racing ball of light is sort of like seeing a man running down the sidewalk in your neighborhood: while he could be coming for you, he could also be getting some exercise, running away from the scene of a crime or racing to help someone. I’m not trying to discourage you from learning and exploring, I just want to explain that you’ll see all sorts of things in the astral, and many times it will simply be because you’re conscious and you’re there.

As for getting out of your house, initial astral projections tend to be brief and take place close to the physical body. For one thing, the first couple of times someone manages to project, they are usually so shocked and amazed by the experience that they think about it too much, which zips them right back into the body. In fact, just thinking about the body can pull you right back into it, and how do you think about being OUT of the body without thinking about the body itself?

There is also something of a gravitational force that will pull you back into the body if you’re close to it, so it’s wise to try to get some distance, though this is easier said than done. For one thing, when you’re totally new to the whole scene, you don’t yet know how to consciously move about in your astral body, which can make going anywhere tricky.

First conscious astral adventures also tend to be on the heavy side because you’re projecting into a dimension that is denser than the astral. At this level of projection, it’s hard to go far from your body. Also, instead of passing through walls, doors, etc., they may feel solid.

In a number of my first conscious astral projection experiences, I remained in the same room and just jumped up and down, touching the ceiling over and over again, as I was totally enthralled with how it felt to be out of the body and able to do this. Both the floor and ceiling felt solid. It was sort of like if you let yourself float down to the bottom of the deep end of a pool and then shot yourself up to the surface, except instead of the resistance of water, imagine moving through air.

It generally takes a lot of practice just to get out of the body, let alone control what you do and where you go. Despite firmly setting a very clear intention of the various experiments I wanted to conduct once I got out, time after time once I actually WAS out, I forgot all about those plans. Afterward, I would be kicking myself that instead of visiting my husband at work so I could later tell him where he was and what he was doing at that time, I just jumped around in my bedroom!

Since I never gained much control while out of the body, you’d be wise to seek guidance from someone more knowledgeable. There are many great astral projection resources available in books and online. I recommend you start with astralvoyage.comastraldynamics.com; and books by Robert Peterson, Robert Monroe and Robert Bruce.

– Soul Arcanum

Astral Sex: My First Out of Body Experience

Following are the (very surprising!) details of my first out-of-body experience:

I had been reading Bob Peterson’s book and practicing some of his exercises for a few weeks. I would lay down whenever I could find the time. (Never in the morning after waking, unfortunately, for that was just too busy a time at my house with my children. Morning is supposed to be an optimum time for practicing).
I would begin by completely relaxing my body, beginning with the toes and moving up and ending with my face. Then I would do a chakra cleansing and re-energizing, and finally I would use a mind control method to detach my consciousness from physical sensation. (See exercises).

I had achieved one exerience where I felt the beginning of “vibrations,” and another where I felt strange energy surges. I had yet to achieve an out-of-body state, but a side effect of my practicing was that I began to see energy blobs, rays and formations everywhere. It was similar to the astral energy I perceive in auras and in communicating with spirits, but had much less vitality and no personality. My interpretation is that I am perceiving structures in the astral or another plane. I asked Bob Peterson about it, and he told me he has experienced the same thing.

Following is what happened.

I put my baby down for a nap and lay down to hopefully take an astral nap myself. As author D.J Conway suggested in Flying without a Broom, I surrounded myself with divine white light and prayed to connect with a higher guide or teacher on the astral who would help me with a problem I’d been having (frustration with my utterly domestic existence as it restricted me time-wise from pursuing everything else I wanted to be doing). I then began relaxing my body, beginning with the feet, ankles, etc…I made it to the calves, and the next thing I knew I was at this church across the road from my subdivision.

The following experience is rather personal (sexual) and I hope you won’t be offended by my sharing it in the interest of science. It was different from a dream, as I was in some physical form but it was lighter and more fluid than my physical body. I expected the experience to be the same as waking reality, and was surprised. The most surprising aspect was that my vision was not normal. (I hadn’t yet read the chapter on vision in Peterson’s book). It was like I had this long tunnel I was looking down, and the things at the end of the tunnel were clear, but everything around them was blurry.

There were other “presences” around the church, and they felt male. Next I’m having what I can best describe as astral sex with one male, then a whole group of them. (This was distinctly different from physical sex…it was wholly an energy thing). I didn’t resist at all, but rather, was completely absorbed in the experience and it was fabulous. (My attitude regarding this shocked me upon reflection. I began to wonder if there was an astral equivalent to AIDS and other std’s, and decided I’d better not think about it or they might become real for me!).

At one point, the entities lifted me up by what was like my wrists and ankles, and it was like I was made of some liquid that is heavier than air but much lighter than flesh. There were definite physical laws in effect, but they were different than what we normally deal with.

I had the sudden thought, “Oh my God, I’ve left my baby napping and the front door is unlocked! I have to get home!” I was not frightened or even worried; it was almost a mock concern, a voice from physical reality creeping in. Next thing I knew, I was hopping/flying down the sidewalk toward my house. While there was a lot of snow here in reality at the time, it had melted in this other dimension, and I thought that was odd. I was trying to hurry home, but I hadn’t quite gotten the hang of how to move about in this jello-like body, so I was doing this little hop…fly fly fly…hop…fly fly fly maneuver. I did imagine that this would seem very comical to anyone who saw me. Next thing I knew, I was back in my bed, but I still had no sensation of my body.

Then I thought I had opened my eyes, and I sensed a presence in the hallway. (I realized that my eyes weren’t really open, however, because my vision wasn’t normal). My husband was on a return flight from Europe at the time of this nap, and I thought, “Oh my goodness, he’s home. But it’s so early!” Next thing I knew I was on my couch, making love again, but I could only see bits of ceiling and the room as I tried to swing that tunnel vision toward the being I was with. His head was on my chest and I touched his hair and thought, “It’s G [my husband at the time].” I felt like it was G, and therefore felt fine making love to him, but then I had the thought that it was a trick, and whoever it was was just making me think it was G so I’d make love to him. (I wasn’t really too concerned with who it was, but was happy to think it was my husband).

But then the energy felt like G’s, and next thing I knew I was on an airplane with my husband and we were both in astral form and we were curled up together in this little corner. I prayed that he would land safely, and then I saw the plane coming down, though this was definitely in another dimension: the plane, the workers, the runway, etc…). I came back into my body, and just then my baby woke up. It took a while for me to feel like I was completely back in the physical.

This experience was incredible, but left me with many questions.

Why, when I prayed for guidance, did I just get lots of sex?

I’ve since noticed that my well-laid plans for astral-adventures seem to be quickly forgotten once I’m out of body.

Why was my vision distorted?

I read Bob Peterson’s chapter on astral vision and it confirmed for me that I must have been truly astral, for I had no notion that my vision would be distorted while out of body before my experience. I’ve since corresponded with other astral travelers who also have distorted vision while out of body.

Why did I think I was back in the physical and had opened my eyes when I was still “out?”

This is another experience shared by many astral travelers, called “false awakening.” I don’t know the answer.

I had read that if you just thought about being somewhere, you’d be there, but then I had trouble “hurrying” home. What was this hopping/flying maneuver about? Why was moving in the astral so awkward?

This is another experience shared by other astral travelers, though many have no problem moving about, and just think themselves to where they want to go. Some say that with experience, we gain better mobility, but some people have no trouble from the very beginning. I don’t think it can be solely dependent on the traveler’s belief system, since I believed that thinking myself to where I wanted to go would work, and it didn’t.

Worried about Returning to Body after Astral Projection

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Dear Soul Arcanum:

I just read about your experience of meeting with your departed grandfather in the astral, and how you asked your husband for help because you couldn’t “get back,” and how his touch helped you “move back into your body fully.” If this should happen to us and we have nobody to “bring us back,” what can we do? I have also woken up from a very real experience and found myself blinking my eyes like crazy in order to “return.” It seemed to take forever. Is there anything we should know or do about such experiences?
– Kay

Dear Kay:

First, let’s cover some background. The experience of mentally awakening but feeling physically paralyzed has been dubbed “sleep paralysis” by dream researchers. It typically involves “waking up” to discover that one is unable to move. People struggling with sleep paralysis may also feel like they are falling, can’t breathe, are being suffocated or crushed by something on their chests, or are threatened somehow by an “evil presence.”

According to scientists, during REM sleep, the body’s muscles are immobilized by the brain so that we don’t physically act out our dreams. The eye muscles and the muscles responsible for circulation and respiration are not disabled. To put it simply, the experience of sleep paralysis occurs when our minds wake up before our bodies. This can happen for various reasons. Some people seem to be more prone to it than others. I had a roommate in college who experienced this all the time. Sleep lab studies revealed that her brain exhibited an extra alpha wave, which would explain her consciousness during a time most of us are oblivious. Sleep paralysis has also been associated with extreme fatigue and stress.

People familiar with astral projection, however, know sleep paralysis to be a state between normal waking consciousness and an out of body experience. It can happen before one leaves the body, but more commonly, it happens upon re-entry, and is caused by one’s consciousness not yet being fully back in the body. The more one’s consciousness reintegrates with the body, the more control one gains over their physical being. This can happen instantly or gradually.

It’s interesting to note that even the sleep paralysis experiences studied by scientific researchers typically mirror out of body experiences: they may include shaking or vibrating sensations, roaring or buzzing in the ears, the sensation of floating or being out of the body, the ability to see through closed eyes, and awareness of the presence of frightening entities, for example.

Most people describe sleep paralysis as the most terrifying experience of their lives. I’ve experienced it myself a number of times, and must admit that it is terrifying in a primal, indescribable way. Despite the terror, I suffered no real harm. I have also corresponded with many people who have had frightening sleep paralysis experiences over the years, and read accounts of many others’ experiences, and I have never heard of anyone being literally harmed.

Researchers estimate that between 15% and 25% of the population experiences sleep paralysis sometimes. In other cultures, it’s far more widespread. For example, one man who grew up in the United States but is now living in Japan commented that according to his Japanese friends, everyone there experiences sleep paralysis. In fact, they were amazed that he hadn’t himself up until the incident that prompted those conversations. With millions of people experiencing sleep paralysis, I’m sure we would have heard about it if it were truly dangerous.

Most people only experience sleep paralysis occasionally during times of extreme stress or fatigue, such as during college exams. It happened to me just after I gave birth to my son, when I was profoundly sleep-deprived. The rarity of these events contributes to their mystery.

By contrast, studies of people who experience sleep paralysis on a somewhat regular basis are reassuring, for those individuals tend to conquer their fear in time. At that point, the experience usually shifts from frightening to fascinating. Where an individual may have sensed “dark” or evil presences initially, he or she now describes the presence of angels, spirit guides or departed loved ones.

We can thus presume that a lack of understanding of what is happening is the cause of all the fear. For example, my father recently had his first spontaneous OOBE as a result of medical trauma. Before this experience, he had never really done any conscious spiritual development. He was not familiar with the idea of astral travel, and so he found himself terrified both during the experience and in the days afterward. When he described it to me, I knew that what had terrified him would probably have fascinated me. As I explained what had happened in astral projection terms, and how common his experience was, his fear began to abate.

According to astral projection experts such as my friend Bob Peterson, who has authored a number of books on the subject, we can not get lost or lose our bodies. The only thing we have to fear is truly fear itself, for when we’re in the astral, our minds will quickly give shape to our fears. What we imagine takes shape in our perceptions immediately. As feeling paralyzed sparks a huge surge of fear, it’s no wonder such experiences are typically described as terrifying.

If you find yourself in that strange state between asleep and awake, unable to move your body or even cry out for help, first try not to panic, for this tends to make things worse. This is easier said than done, as anyone who has been through sleep paralysis can tell you.

Know that you will not remain paralyzed long. Try to relax and simply focus your awareness on your body and your physical surroundings. Focus your attention on moving or opening your eyes, since these will not be immobilized. People who have a lot of sleep paralysis experiences usually recommend either focusing on moving one’s eyes or moving a single digit, like a finger or a toe. This focused effort generally brings one fully back into the body, thus ending the sensation of paralysis.

As strange as all of this may sound, it’s really quite common. Astral travel is as old as humanity itself. We can find references to out of body experiences throughout history in numerous cultures around the world. Many spiritual teachers are convinced that we astral travel every night; we just don’t remember these adventures.

As I believe that sleep paralysis may be a sign that we’re moving toward conscious awareness of other dimensions, we might view it as a positive spiritual development. In fact, many people learn how to consciously astral project from the paralyzed state. With the wisdom and understanding of experience, these strange events may become a wonderful source of new spiritual power and awareness.

– Soul Arcanum


Worried about Returning to Body after Astral Projection?

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Dear Soul Arcanum:

I just read about your experience of meeting with your departed grandfather in the astral, and how you asked your husband for help, because you couldn’t “get back,” and how his touch helped you “move back into your body fully.” If this should happen to us and we have nobody to “bring us back,” what can we do? I have also woken up from a very real experience and found myself blinking my eyes like crazy in order to “return.” It seemed to take forever. Is there anything we should know or do about such experiences?
– Kay

Dear Kay:

First, let’s cover some background. The experience of mentally awakening but feeling physically paralyzed has been dubbed “sleep paralysis” by dream researchers. It typically involves “waking up” to discover that one is unable to move. People struggling with sleep paralysis may also feel like they are falling, can’t breathe, are being suffocated or crushed by something on their chests, or are threatened somehow by an “evil presence.”

According to scientists, during REM sleep, the body’s muscles are immobilized by the brain so that we don’t physically act out our dreams. The eye muscles and the muscles responsible for circulation and respiration are not disabled. To put it simply, the experience of sleep paralysis occurs when our minds wake up before our bodies. This can happen for various reasons. Some people seem to be more prone to it than others. I had a roommate in college who experienced this all the time. Sleep lab studies revealed that her brain exhibited an extra alpha wave, which would explain her consciousness during a time most of us are oblivious. Sleep paralysis has also been associated with extreme fatigue and stress.

People familiar with astral projection, however, know sleep paralysis to be a state between normal waking consciousness and an out of body experience. It can happen before one leaves the body, but more commonly, it happens upon re-entry, and is caused by one’s consciousness not yet being fully back in the body. The more one’s consciousness reintegrates with the body, the more control one gains over their physical being. This can happen instantly or gradually.

It’s interesting to note that even the sleep paralysis experiences studied by scientific researchers typically mirror out of body experiences: they may include shaking or vibrating sensations, roaring or buzzing in the ears, the sensation of floating or being out of the body, the ability to see through closed eyes, and awareness of the presence of frightening entities, for example.

Most people describe sleep paralysis as the most terrifying experience of their lives. I’ve experienced it myself a number of times, and must admit that it is terrifying in a primal, indescribable way. Despite the terror, I suffered no real harm. I have also corresponded with many people who have had frightening sleep paralysis experiences over the years, and read accounts of many others’ experiences, and I have never heard of anyone being literally harmed.

Researchers estimate that between 15% and 25% of the population experiences sleep paralysis sometimes. In other cultures, it’s far more widespread. For example, one man who grew up in the United States but is now living in Japan commented that according to his Japanese friends, everyone there experiences sleep paralysis. In fact, they were amazed that he hadn’t himself up until the incident that prompted those conversations. With millions of people experiencing sleep paralysis, I’m sure we would have heard about it if it were truly dangerous.

Most people only experience sleep paralysis occasionally during times of extreme stress or fatigue, such as during college exams. It happened to me just after I gave birth to my son, when I was profoundly sleep-deprived. The rarity of these events contributes to their mystery.

By contrast, studies of people who experience sleep paralysis on a somewhat regular basis are reassuring, for those individuals tend to conquer their fear in time. At that point, the experience usually shifts from frightening to fascinating. Where an individual may have sensed “dark” or evil presences initially, he or she now describes the presence of angels, spirit guides or benevolent aliens.

We can thus presume that a lack of understanding of what is happening is the cause of all the fear. For example, my father recently had his first spontaneous OOBE as a result of medical trauma. Before this experience, he had never really done any conscious spiritual development. He was not familiar with the idea of astral travel, and so he found himself terrified both during the experience and in the days afterward. When he described it to me, I knew that what had terrified him would probably have fascinated me. As I explained what had happened in astral projection terms, and how common his experience was, his fear began to abate.

According to astral projection experts such as my friend Bob Peterson, who has authored a number of books on the subject, we can not get lost or lose our bodies. The only thing we have to fear is truly fear itself, for when we’re in the astral, our minds will quickly give shape to our fears. What we imagine takes shape in our perceptions immediately. As feeling paralyzed sparks a huge surge of fear, it’s no wonder such experiences are typically described as terrifying.

If you find yourself in that strange state between asleep and awake, unable to move your body or even cry out for help, first try not to panic, for this tends to make things worse. This is easier said than done, as anyone who has been through sleep paralysis can tell you.

Know that you will not remain paralyzed long. Try to relax and simply focus your awareness on your body and your physical surroundings. Focus your attention on moving or opening your eyes, since these will not be immobilized. People who have a lot of sleep paralysis experiences usually recommend either focusing on moving one’s eyes or moving a single digit, like a finger or a toe. This focused effort generally brings one fully back into the body, thus ending the sensation of paralysis.

As strange as all of this may sound, it’s really quite common. Astral travel is as old as humanity itself. We can find references to out of body experiences throughout history in numerous cultures around the world. Many spiritual teachers are convinced that we astral travel every night; we just don’t remember these adventures.

As I believe that sleep paralysis may be a sign that we’re moving toward conscious awareness of other dimensions, we might view it as a positive spiritual development. In fact, many people learn how to consciously astral project from the paralyzed state. With the wisdom and understanding of experience, these strange events may become a wonderful source of new spiritual power and awareness.

– Soul Arcanum